Now let's look at the money you spend. How much do you pay
to live each month? Again, make a list of all your regular expenses, including
estimates of the long-term costs related to your child's disability. For some
of the expenses (such as groceries, meals, and utilities), you may need to
figure out an average over a few months. To calculate the averages, look over
past statements or your check register to find the amounts, add them up, and
then divide the total by the number of items you listed in each category.
The following items will get you started on your expense
list. Again, cross out the categories that don't apply to you, and feel free to
add your own. Fill in the amounts in the right-hand column and total them at
the bottom of the worksheet.
| Item |
Amount |
| Savings |
$ |
| Rent or mortgage |
$ |
| Homeowners' or renters' insurance |
$ |
| Condo/townhouse/homeowner association fees |
$ |
| Home repairs or improvements |
$ |
| Groceries |
$ |
| Meals and snacks eaten out |
$ |
| Utilities (electricity, heat, water, etc.) |
$ |
| Transportation (public transportation, car payments, gas, car insurance, maintenance, repairs, etc.) |
$ |
| Vacations |
$ |
| Dental bills |
$ |
| Union and professional dues |
$ |
| Charitable donations |
$ |
| Child care |
$ |
| Child support payments |
$ |
| Loan payments (personal, car, school, etc.) |
$ |
| Life insurance premiums |
$ |
| Credit card bills |
$ |
| Tuition and fees |
$ |
| Cable TV/satellite TV |
$ |
| Internet |
$ |
| Health insurance, prescription drugs, and doctor/dentist bills |
$ |
| Clothing/uniforms |
$ |
| Entertainment (movies, sporting events, concerts, etc.) |
$ |
| Telephone, cellphone, pager |
$ |
| Pet care |
$ |
| Personal (haircuts, toiletries, allowances, etc.) |
$ |
| Miscellaneous (gifts, vacations, etc.) |
$ |
| Costs associated with your child's disability |
| Medical costs (not paid for by insurance or others) |
$ |
| Medical insurance costs (other than Medicaid or Medicare) |
$ |
| Therapy (occupational, physical, etc.) not covered by insurance |
$ |
| Transportation to/from special care or hospital |
$ |
| Lodging and meals incurred during treatment away from home |
$ |
| Child care/nursing care (not covered by insurance) |
$ |
| Assistance for daily living |
$ |
| Legal fees |
$ |
| TOTAL EXPENSES |
$ |